Have you been trying to reach a goal, but not getting the results you want?
It can actually be easier than you realize, once you see this one thing.
Most people consciously say that they want a goal, but if they’ve been trying, and not able to see results, you want to look under the hood for what’s blocking them subconsciously.
The conscious mind says, ‘I’ll take tall, dark and handsome, but the subconscious mind says, ‘I want emotionally unavailable, passive-aggressive and avoidant.’ 🙈😂
You would never consciously ask for that, but our programming wires what’s familiar is ‘safe’ from our past, even if it’s not. Look at who you attract, and what dynamics you play out, and that’s evidence of your subconscious programming.
It doesn’t matter what the goal is, it could be relational, financial, physical, etc., there are limitations from our subconscious mind.
And 95% of behavior comes from the subconscious, so if you’re not doing work on this level, it’s only going to go so far.
Your conscious mind is the gas, but your subconscious mind holds the brakes, and you get in your own way, making reaching your goals much harder than it needs to be.
Let’s look at an example:
Say you want to build your coaching business to six-figures, but you worry that doing so means you have to sacrifice time with your family.
How you can start overcoming your subconscious limitations once you do work to identify them (what I shared in my last email), is to find out what your opposing desires are, and then creativity align them.
There are many ways to do that, but one I can share with you here to help you get started, is to ask both parts of you, the part that has the foot on the gas + brakes, questions to get on the same page like, ‘How can I build my business AND maintain time with my family?’
Then see what ideas drop in... I could…
→ Delegate / hire someone to help me in the business
→ Set clear boundaries on when I’m working and when I’m not
→ Schedule in family time before anything else gets on my calendar
Once you find one that works for both parts, make sure they agree to the new plan and then test it out.
It’s so much easier than most people realize + I want to make sure you’re empowered to ask yourself some insightful questions to get into alignment and step into all your heartfelt desires. 💫
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